…Tolanibaj admits she has outgrown clubbing and wants something more meaningful in her life.
LAGOS, NIGERIA – The iNews Times | Popular reality TV personality and disc jockey, Tolanibaj, has signaled a major shift in her personal outlook, revealing that she is now ready for marriage and no longer finds joy in the party lifestyle.
In a heartfelt video posted via her Snapchat, the 31-year-old former Big Brother Naija star admitted she has outgrown clubbing and wants something more meaningful in her life.
“I need to start being honest with myself. I no longer enjoy clubbing. I keep forcing it… trying to see if I can experience some kind of excitement. But honestly, I’m tired. I don’t want to be outside anymore. What am I looking for outside if I have a partner?”
According to Tolanibaj, her desire for a deeper connection now outweighs the thrill of nightlife. She suggested that she would prefer to share travel experiences and adventures with a significant other rather than spend late nights at clubs.
“We can be outside together, maybe travelling. I’m done clubbing. I don’t feel like pretending to be having fun in the club anymore. I think it’s time to get married,” she said candidly.
However, despite her readiness, Tolanibaj also admitted that the idea of marriage is a daunting one.
“Marriage is a scary commitment,” she confessed. “I don’t even know if I would still like it after being in it for a few months.”
Her honesty has struck a chord with fans and followers, many of whom have applauded her for being vulnerable about personal growth and shifting priorities.
Tolanibaj, known for her vibrant social life and high-energy public persona, appears to be entering a new chapter, one marked by self-awareness, a longing for emotional intimacy, and perhaps, a ring in the near future.
As conversations about love, maturity, and lifestyle changes grow louder among her fanbase, one thing is clear: Tolanibaj is ready to trade the noise of the club for the quiet companionship of a partner – even if she’s still figuring it all out.
